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But nine times out of ten, I prefer telling my top exactly how to penetrate me and I do so with gusto.
Second, I like being a bottom outdoors. Ensure you can trust them
Trust is a major contributing factor towards a healthy Dom/sub partnership. These may sound like characteristics listed on a job ad, but here's why they matter:
Self-control is vital as a Dom must be able to exercise self-restraint before they can control you.
Being most often synonymous with a power bottom as the dominant person having more fun in the bottom's position.
A submissive top could also be attributed to a person who looks like a more dominant person; tall, intimidating, strong and other things picture when thinking about dominant people, but their personality is that of a submissive bottom.
A healthy bet is to find someone who's as bothered about you after the play as they are about you during it. What's more, by stating your own preferences, you'll increase your chances of being approached by a Dom looking for a sub like you. I’m a rugged bottom that likes it outdoors – and I’m not ashamed to admit it.
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Tips for new subs on finding a good Dom
from Recon News
06 June 2016
Whether you'd classify yourself as a sub, slave, boy, bottom or another term entirely, one thing is fairly true across the board, finding the right Dom/Master/Sir/top for you isn't always a straightforward process.
Our interest varies too.
4. You need to do some research, weigh up your options and make sure you're comfortable with any steps you take. Recon exists so that you can master your fetish evolution, meet guys and try out the things you crave – so use us. I can. You should also have a good look at the Dom's profile. Consider what makes a good Dom
It's not just about giving orders, a truly good Dom has self-control, good communication skills and is respectful.
They are a good basis, though, so keep them in mind when you're on your hunt.
They need to communicate and listen well, so both of you can share any anxieties or concerns, and so you can feel confident in both expressing your desires and being able to slow things down if you need to.
Ideally, they should respect you and your level of experience.
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They can desire that feeling of being controlled, helpless and otherwise submissive, to the right power bottom.A "power bottom" and a "submissive top" are like two sides of the same coin.
Any concerns that you might have before going to a meet are perfectly valid, so bear them in mind when looking.
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These tips are fairly standard, but they're not necessarily universal. If he's into bikers but you prefer puppy play, he might not be the guy for you. You could go out tonight and find a willing Dom, but who's to say whether you'd be compatible.
I wonder if there's a better word than "submissive" to be the opposite of the word "power"? Things such as how many friends they've got and how many photos of actual play they have will help you gauge their experience and "reputation".
5. Every other word makes it sound like an insult.
by Helpful_Vaporeon March 31, 2020